Ugh! I am so frustrated. I simply do not understand why people have to be so ignorant. I lurk on this miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss group and I seriously just saw something that astounded me. Someone actually posted pictures of their "rainbow" baby all dressed up as a Cupid for valentines day. On a site where women go to grieve for their dead children she decided to post pictures of her baby?!?! Are you fucking serious?!?! That's just so cruel. I don't understand why people do this.
I run a group for TTC after miscarriage and it seriously seems like pregnant women are constantly coming on there to ask questions about their pregnancy. I understand that BBC is a big place and its easy to get disoriented and post something in the wrong place, but wheni point them in the direction of a group for pregnancy after loss they get all self-righteous and defend their right to post here. Its infuriating. I wish I could be like some of the tougher GOs and just lock the thread. Maybe I should do that.
Recently one of my friends on BBC got pregnant. I was following her IF journey blog on here and was shocked when I logged in a few days ago and saw that she'd deleted all the entries about IF and was now acting like all of that never happened and she was just keeping a baby blog. I don't get it. Is infertility really that shameful? Are you really going to act like you can erase all the pain of TTC?
Has the whole world gone fertile crazy?